The problem isn’t just mixed Americans (black & white, latino & black, white & latino) it’s also First Generation Americans. From the NYT:
Jenifer Bratter once wore a T-shirt in college that read “100 percent black woman.” Her African-American friends would not have it.
“I remember getting a lot of flak because of the fact I wasn’t 100 percent black,” said Ms. Bratter, 34, recalling her years at Penn State.
“I was very hurt by that,” said Ms. Bratter, whose mother is black and whose father is white. “I remember feeling like, Isn’t this what everybody expects me to think?”
Being accepted. Proving loyalty. Navigating the tight space between racial divides. Americans of mixed race say these are issues they have long confronted, and when Senator Barack Obama recently delivered a speech about race in Philadelphia, it rang with a special significance in their ears. They saw parallels between the path trod by Mr. Obama and their own.
But you may remember I recently wrote about this same issue:
We have no one to relate to. We are not fully (Mexican, Nigerian, Korean) but we are also not white Americans. We cannot blend in anywhere we go; we can never truly be accepted. When we go home to our families, we are made fun of by cousins, nephews, and aunts alike for being a “gringo” or “oyimbo” or “muzungu” which in three different languages, essentially means a white person, and not a pleasant term for one at that. I had a friend in my Spanish class (for bilinguals and native speakers) who is Venezuelan but was raised here in the US and speaks English with a slight accent. When she ‘goes home’ to Venezuela, her compatriots ridicule her for being a ‘gringa’ while here in the US of A she can’t escape the hate and racism against her as people mistakenly assume Mexican heritage. In a mostly western-European descended world, if your name isn’t Jessica Alba or Eva Longoria, olive-shaded skin often times does not bode well. Although this society, this country, worships stars of many different racial upbringings on the stage, silver screen, and playing field, up close and personal it is a very different story.
That is the country we live in, and we must choose to embrace that which makes us different.
Or fail as a nation.